As a millennial, when I think about the phrase "First Home" I don't think of "buying" my first home... I think of "renting".
You've wrapped up your post-secondary experience, in which you may have been living in residence on campus, student housing with room-mates just off campus or maybe even living with Mom & Dad while going to school. Not to mention you’ve got a hefty student loan debt hanging over you now. Meaning you’ll be on a tight budget for a bit, especially until you move up in your new job and put some money aside (in a TFSA (Tax-Free Savings Account) or Mutual Fund to save for the next stage of your life and retirement). So what's next!?
This can be a scary thought but also an exciting right of passage; you're leaving the nest to make a "home" all of your own. Now don't be fooled! You probably won't find your dream place right out of the box. I know I didn't! Just remember, life is messy, full of ups and downs, and life lessons. Housing (and finding great housing) is just that, an opportunity to learn and grow. Life is a journey, so don't expect to be living in the penthouse suite overnight, it may take some time.
As a young working professional in Toronto I have moved all over the city in search of my "home" instead of merely a "place to live". Here is my journey and the things I've taken away from my experiences... Be ready to laugh, cry and even wince at some of the mistakes I've made...
My First "Place"
Location: Vaughan, ON
Type of Unit: Basement Apartment
Found via: Kijiji
What I learned: Basement apartments may be a reasonable option when you are looking for a place to live. They can be less expensive than high rise and low rise buildings making it easier on your small budget, and some even come with parking. But you need to be very thorough in your search and when you go to see the listing.
Find out who lives above you. Is it your landlord or other tenant(s)? Do they have kids? Pets? Has the ceiling of the basement apartment been sound proofed? All of these things can contribute to the level of noise you will experience in a basement apartment. In my first place my landlords lived above me, they were very loud (often late into the night) and they had a dog that would bark the entire time they were away. Needless to say, they had not soundproofed the ceiling, and I was left with the choices of merely putting up with it or moving out.
Do you have control of the heat to your own unit or is it controlled by the upper level? Remember, heat rises, so if you do not have control of your own thermostat, be prepared to be cold. I had to wear sweaters and flannel pyjamas all year round because of this little oversight.
Is there a sliding glass door, walk out backyard or windows in the basement large enough for you to fit through in case of an emergency? Not all basement apartments are up to code, especially in older homes where turning the basement into an apartment was a decision made merely to help the owners with the costs associated with owning their own home. At my first place, the entrance to the basement apartment was a door at the top of the stairs coming from the garage. I had a small ground-level basement window that I could have fit out of, if I climbed up on a stool, if I had to. But honestly, it really wouldn't have been adequate if a real emergency presented itself. Be safe, make sure that there are exits available to you in case you'd need them.
My Second "Place"
Location: Wallace-Emerson neighbourhood, Downtown Toronto, ON
Type of Unit: One-bedroom, high rise apartment building
Found via: Kijiji
What I learned: Location, location, location. If a listing you are checking out is substantially cheaper than most listings in the city, there's probably a reason. Downtown Toronto can be very expensive when it comes to renting, and so when I found a unit that was nearly half of what other places were asking, I jumped on it. Bad idea! The neighbourhood might be currently up and coming, but in 2010 it was rough! And as a single female, I even had police officer friends telling me I should move... Eeekk!
What does the general neighbourhood look like? Would you be afraid to run to the corner store after dark? I was so scared of going out after dark alone in this neighbourhood, that I taught my little 8lb dog to use a litter box so I didn't have to walk her past 6PM. And there was a "no standing" sign outside my building to discourage illegal activity outside the main doors! RED FLAG!
Inquire as to whether or not this building has or has had bed bugs and cockroaches. This is a question that I didn't even know I had to ask, but even nice neighbourhoods and buildings can have pest problems. And much to my dismay this building had problems with both. Of course I happily agreed to fumigation at the time, but my one neighbour was not so forthcoming and the roaches travelled back to my unit via the old heating system that ran from unit to unit. Now I'm all for being within budget, but this place was a nightmare. On a positive note, this place was so cheap that I paid off nearly half of my student loan debt in one year! Thinking about that makes me feel better about my decision to live amongst the roaches... I'm all about the silver linings. Are you writing this stuff down!?
My Third "Place"
Location: Maple, ON
Type of Unit: One-bedroom, high rise condo building
Found via: Realtor.ca
What I learned: Buildings with professional & courteous 24hr concierge and/or security are totally worth the extra cost! Does the building have onsite 24hr security and/or concierge services? Having confidence in the staff and security personnel of your building can make a world of difference about how you feel about your building and your personal security. Newer buildings often have concierge and/or security onsite, but not all of them are 24hrs. I found that when I lived in a gated community, where all visitors had to go through several check points with 24hr security prior to reaching my suite’s door, made me feel much safer as a single person living alone.
Does the building have onsite amenities accessible to their residents? Having access to amenities like a fitness room, yoga studio, saunas, party room and terrace can be a time and money saver when it is onsite and is included in your rent. Instead of having to pay for expensive gym memberships only to be inconveniently located away from your building, you can exercise only a few floors away from your unit. Or if you have an exciting event or celebration coming up you can sign out the party room to host a large group of friends, family and guests alike. Yes, these things are a luxury, but can be a great addition to your happiness residing in your building.
How close are you to places you frequently shop? If you are like me and are particular about where you shop, eat and who you give your business to, having the businesses and brands you are loyal to nearby can be a very important deciding factor! In a large metropolis like Toronto, you may have to run all over town to get all your errands done; East side, West side, down by the Waterfront or up by the 401! So when you find a place that has a majority of the places you frequent, it is a good indicator that you will probably be happy living in that neighbourhood. Time is money after all, so why spend more of it running around than is really necessary!?
My Fourth "Place"
Location: The Junction neighbourhood, Downtown Toronto, ON
Type of Unit: One-bedroom, high rise condo building
Found via: Real Estate Agent
What I learned: Knowing the general types of individuals that are co-habiting a building can be a good thing to know in advance. What is the general demographic of the building? Are they older in age or younger like students? Or new families? This can give you an idea of what the sound levels will be like in a building. Buildings with older demographics tend to be quieter where as buildings with a lot of younger individuals and/or students can occasionally be louder and play host to regular parties. And buildings with new families with young children can be noisy at times as well. This is not meant to be discriminatory in any way, but if you are sensitive to noise and prefer to live in a quieter building, knowing the demographic of the building can help you avoid living somewhere you will not be happy. Many a nights I was kept up until 4AM by the thumping of heavy bass from the unit above me, when I had to be up by 6:30AM for work. Not cool!
Is it close to public transit? Bus stops? Subway station? If your main means of transportation is public transit than it is necessary to scope out your building’s vicinity to the nearest subway station(s) and/or bus stop(s). Especially with our cold Canadian winters, and the way the bone-chilling winds can whistle between buildings in this concrete jungle, knowing how far you have to walk in the snow to get to work should not be overlooked!
My current "Home"
Location: Oldtown neighbourhood Downtown Toronto, ON
Type of Unit: One-bedroom, high rise condo building
Rent: $1600/month (shared between my boyfriend & I)
Found via: My boyfriend
What I learned: "All good things come to those that wait." But also to those that apply themselves and never give up! I have learned that “Home" is a state of mind not a physical place, and only those that have experienced this feeling will understand it. However, achieving many to all of your housing preferences can make your “Home" even more special. It feels good to go down the checklist and check off all the things you’re looking for in a building or property you are considering making your “Home". It took many years for me to find my “home". But I now live in a safe neighbourhood that I love, with businesses I am loyal to like Starbucks, Royal Bank of Canada, St. Lawrence Market and Loblaws, as well as being within walking distance to other great areas Like Yonge & Dundas and the Distillery District. Our building has 24hr security and concierge, plenty of amenities, and we take great pride in our home where we can frequently host our friends for dinner parties and get togethers. We are close to a public park where we can take our dog for walks and within walking distance of multiple transit stops and subway stations. In addition, sharing the costs associated with our home allows us to focus more on our budget, planning for the next stage of our lives as well as retirement.
In closing, you will find your “Home"! Remember though, that it will take some time and you will make mistakes along the way. So figure out your budget and what your short-term, mid-term and long-term goals are financially and plan accordingly. You may have to make some sacrifices in the short term to benefit you in the long term. Don’t over extend yourself financially too early on or else it will make things challenging moving forward. But as I said before, life is a journey and growing up is filled with choices and mistakes. Your only responsibility is to learn from any mistakes you may make. I have learned a lot from the mistakes I’ve made during my search to find my “Home" but I have no regrets! And now I can whole-heartedly say that I am looking forward to us buying our first house as a couple in a few years and learning everything that goes along with that journey as well!
I'd love to hear from you. Tell me about your renting or buying experiences (good or bad) in the comments below!
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Until next time… Enjoy!
Living in Ontario my whole life, I was never really attracted to nautical decor before. But because my boyfriend and his family are Maritimers originally from Halifax, and via some inspiration from my sister-in-law’s blog “The Blondielocks”, I decided to do a little throwback to their roots. And it ended up being A LOT of fun!
Loving the freshness of this theme throughout my home! XoXo
Seen here: Ted Baker teacup & saucer (gifted to me at the opening of the Ted Baker store at the Toronto Eaton Centre), manners cloth napkin set from UrbanBirdandCo from Etsy and Dior nail polishes in Darling Blue & Miroir.
Accent centrepiece made simply using a decorative bowl, assortment of driftwood & seashells and a centred hurricane candle.
As many of you are already aware, the bathroom is one of my favourite rooms in the house to decorate! I really enjoy the contrast between the blue and brown towels... And it was a blast making the below accent piece made to look like glittery blue coral in a vase full of sand. Stay tuned for the DIY!
I have a weak spot for decor. Correction: I have a weak spot for “matchy matchy" decor.
I like there to be a cohesiveness and consistency throughout the various rooms when I decorate. Don’t get me wrong, I like to mix and match too; with different textures, medias, etc. But there is something to be said about your decor having a fluidity to it; tying each room and your tastes together. One of my favourite go-to places for shopping decor is quickly becoming Etsy! I love being able to buy unique, handmade items as well as support small business owners (and local business owners whenever I can). See below for some of my favourite recent finds...
I pick up fresh flowers from the St. Lawrence Market every Saturday. My home simply would not be the same without fresh flowers on the table. I believe in the little things - and that sometimes the smallest of gestures are the most special. Things like fresh flowers, freshly laundered guest hand towels in the bathroom and warm, fresh pastries for breakfast. One of my favourite books/ebooks is “The Modern Girl’s Guide to Life" that shares tips and tricks that have been passed from generation to generation that all women should know - but many may not.
Click the above image to shop “The Modern Girl’s Guide to Life" from Indigo!
Peonies from the St. Lawrence Market farmer’s market
Easter, and decorating for Easter, can be oodles of fun! Especially if you decide to decorate some Easter eggs! I haven’t decorated real eggs for Easter since I was a kid. So when I decided I’d do it again this year, I thought it would be nice to elevate this DIY with some influence and inspiration from none other than Martha Stewart. Now just as an upfront disclosure, the process I am about to walk you through is rather long due to working with real eggs and dyeing multiple colours, etc. But it is totally worth it! These eggs turned out better than I expected!
If you want to cut a few corners you can always use styrofoam or wooden craft eggs, paint them in your desired colour(s) and decorate accordingly - Or you can dip dye using hard boiled eggs (but please note that hardboiled eggs must be kept refridgerated after decoration). Have fun!
Things you’ll need for blowing out and dip dyeing...
- 6 to 12 fresh white eggs
- All-Clad kettle to boil hot water (1/2 to 1 cup of hot water per colour)
- vinegar (1 to 2 teaspoons per colour)
- container to dye eggs in (preferably glass)
- spoon(s) to submerge egg in colour
- food colouring (your choice in colours)
- Renova paper towel
- Gold acrylic paint
- Paintbrushes (optional)
Dip dyeing: Pink, Lime and Yellow!
To get your desired colour, there is some trial and error involved… You may need to add more drops of food colouring if it is not turning the colour you want, and you may need to leave the egg in for anywhere from two minutes to 15 minutes before you’re happy with the result. It’s all based on your personal preference.
Click the above image to shop the All-Clad kettle from Hudson’s Bay
Dip Dyeing: Orange, Blue and Purple!
This is the result! TA-DAH!
Here is a beautiful way to decorate your Easter eggs from Martha Stewart...
And here is my alternative to gold leafing… Sponge painting or ragging using paper towel with gold paint to achieve a similar effect! Another way to decorate your eggs with gold paint is to dry brush the paint on.
~ Creating the Centrepiece ~
- your blown-out, dip dyed eggs
- bag of crinkle kraft paper
- a bunny for the centre
- a large accent bowl
- Easter chocolate/candy (optional)
Here are a few of my favourite “Easter" things...
Until next time… Enjoy!
I don’t know about you, but I start each and every morning with a cup of my favourite home-brewed Starbucks® coffee! And Christmas morning won’t be any exception! But this year when I wake up on December 25th (at probably 6AM out of excitement), I plan on my morning "Cup of Joe" being a bit more festive than the other days of the year - with the Starbucks® Christmas Blend… It’s like Christmas in a cup!
If you’ve never tried French Press coffee it’s really time you should! It really brings out the exquisite flavours of the beans. You’ll taste coffee like you’ve never tasted it before! It’s also super fun to do whether you're alone or entertaining; with its classic style. Not to mention, it’s surprisingly easy.
You’ll see below that I decided to pair my “Christmas in a cup" with my mom’s homemade shortbread cookies! Mmmm… Nothing like mom or grandma’s Christmas cookies to get you in the spirit wherever you are! Here’s sneak peak; an insider’s look, at what my Christmas morning will look like (and a brief how-to for using a french press)… Enjoy!
Using the Bodum Chambord French Press, follow the directions for amount of coffee grounds per number of cups you wish to make, then add to the press. For making the full 8-cup press I recommend using 8-10 scoops (at least one scoop per cup) depending on your taste. Be sure to use only coarse ground coffee beans so not to clog the delicate wire filter of the press.
Click the above image to shop the Bodum Chambord French Press from Starbucks!
In a kettle heat up some water. You do not want to add rapidly boiling water directly to the French Press, so if you do bring the water to a boil be sure to wait a few minutes before adding. Add a small amount the hot water to the press, just enough to soak the grinds and let sit for 30seconds to a minute (with the lid back on the press - But don’t press down yet).
Click the above image to shop All-Clad kettle from Hudson’s Bay!
Click the above image to shop Lacoste Washcloths & Towels from Hudson’s Bay!
Click the above image to shop the Christmas Blend from Starbucks!
Stir the grinds with a plastic spoon before adding the rest of the water to the press, then gently stir again and pop the lid back on. Let the coffee grinds and hot water sit for approximately four minutes more before*slowly* pressing the plunger down.
Click the above image to shop the Holiday Red Traveler Cup from Starbucks!
Happy "Day before Christmas" from GenerationYYZ®!
Until next time… Enjoy!